Do you know how essential good body language is and how would you describe a positive body
language? We all subconsciously know its importance, but we just ignore it.
Don’t you remember analyzing a person’s body
language first impressions when you meet them? Well, I’m sure you must have
tried it on your juniors and seniors
at your school, college or university.
So, yes, It’s pretty much true that we can predict someone’s
character through a thorough analysis of their personality. We can say that our
positive body language is a silent form of messaging or communication with
all those we interact. Like those times when we want to convey a secret message
to our friends, we use various signals and bodily expressions to convey the
message. Thus, a good body language
is very much essential to show your confidence
to others and earn their respect and trust.
Here are some Good Body Language Examples:-
1.
STAND
STRAIGHT- THE BASE FOR A GOOD BODY LANGUAGE
Since our childhood we have often heard from our elders, be
it our mother, father, teacher or an elder friend, to “Stand Straight”. Well,
we didn’t understand the purpose of their nagging but now we should know the
reason behind it. Our posture and
its firmness portray a lot about our
personality. Observe the Army
personnel, how straight do they stand and why do they do so? Some of us
find standing straight very difficult, why? It is because we prefer to be at
ease and stand in a relaxed manner. There is nothing complicated about standing
straight other than getting used to it. Thus, your standing posture plays a significant role in conveying your confident, attitude, just try it out as
it is a big step to confident body
posture.
2.
FIRM
HANDSHAKES:-
Many amongst us don’t
like to socialize with others. Hence, when someone extends a hand towards them
for the handshake, they get nervous,
and their hand begins to tremble. Now that is not a good signal to the person
with whom you are interacting. Why should be afraid to meet people? They all
are like us, so be confident and
give them a firm and strong handshake.
And yes, try not to crush their hand with your handshake. Also, remember to
not hold someone’s hand for too long because that becomes quite weird. It’s a
lot to digest, I know, but get it right and it will add up to your excellent
& positive body language.
3.
DON’T
FIDGET:-
While talking with other people you should make proper use
of hand gestures. Neither be overtly
expressive nor be seated like a talking wax
statue. People who don’t use hand
gestures at all, convey wrong signals that they are worried. While those
who use their hands excessively express themselves as excited and one-breath
people (Those who complete their whole speech at a go without pauses). So keep
yourself calm and relaxed, and don’t shake
your legs while talking, most of us make that mistake. Thus, avoiding
fidgeting will also add up to your good
body language.
4.
HEAD
UP, EYES AHEAD:-
This is another one of the examples of positive body language to show your confidence of any people, higher authority & famous Celebrity. Some guys lower their gaze while walking
amongst people. The reason behind is their low
confidence and self-esteem, such low self-esteem discourages others to
confide in you, and that is why you must always walk with your head up and eyes ahead. Show them all
that you’re nowhere less than them. Also, when you lower your gaze while
talking to someone, it signals to them that you don’t want to be in the
conversation with them. So, keep this in mind and inculcate it within your
already developing good body language
to enhance your personality.
5.
APPROPRIATE
GROOMING:-
You are going to a
party with good looks with dressing
sense & Hand bags but with no good party wear, then who would want
see you there? No one! All the aforementioned tips were for grooming your personality. But, to completely enhance
your style, you’ll require external
grooming too. With the appropriate grooming, I bet, it would be a piece of
cake to get noticed amongst the crowd. So, along with the good body language, work on your dressing as well.
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